Paul Monette
“Self pity becomes your oxygen. But you learned to breathe it without a gasp. So, nobody even notices you’re hurting.”
What do you guys think about definitions?
Something that I always seem to want is to define queerness. Some of my closest friends and even my boyfriend tend to find ‘queer’ as being offensive, but I’ve taken it upon myself to find empowerment in this term. I see it as a way to not only avoid any mishaps when speaking with gender non-conforming or anyone with not well-known sexual orientations. You should always do research before trying to say something you are not a part of because you can easily offend a lot of people by not understanding when and where you are to use words like these.
However, as much as I can say definitions help us, they hinder us as a community. I feel that assuming people don’t understand your definition is slightly conceited, especially if that person is a friend or family that is not being antagonizing in any way.
So I started typing this yesterday but it was during a heated time. I didn’t finish it because I ended up just running away and focusing on food and final exams. So I began writing again today and realized it wasn’t cohesive. Hopefully another time this week I can write something that makes much more sense and has to do with my true passions, not something that is about simply venting my feelings.